Here is another situation; an example of what I have gone through that made me think there was some sort of conspiracy going on against me.

I am waiting for word from two friends about getting together today. In visiting NC for 5 days to rehearse with musicians (the bass player who has to travel from 3 hours out of town) and nobody is even confirming or aknowleging their status. For 3 hours I have been in limbo about what to do.

Power is out at the drummer's house where I'm staying. I can't just chill (I can...pun inintendedin a cold house and play guitar in our practice room. I don't have a car or bike that I can get to my other friend's house to visit. I have to charge my phone at the library or a convenience store. I can't be where I said I was a while ago because I am trying to get things done instead of sit on my ass at the house waiting for slackers (as far as I can tell they are) to meet me and get to it.

I planned these rendezenvous & gave plenty of advanced notice. It frustrates the hell out of me when these sort of miss coordination happens!